“She’s Not A Vegan”: Boyfriend Can’t Take It Anymore, Calls Out Girlfriend On Her Lies (2024)

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Adelaide Ross

Austėja Akavickaitė

Suzy Creamcheese

To be honest, "Sheila" sounds like someone I'd probably go out of my way to avoid.

TonyTee

Not sure how my comment will be perceived this time around, but, my own personal opinion has me thinking Sheila and Michaela were in the wrong here; Sheila for being so rude and not as accepting as others who have different views or lifestyles, instead of looking past it and just getting to know (and trying to like) them for the kind of people they are (including Michaela and boyfriend). Michaela is in the wrong too, for misleading Sheila and going along with a game that she knew was childish and could backfire on her; besides that, she had no problem with Sheila passing obnoxious comments about their eating habits, and let her talk down on her bf, which is way wrong. The bf was only in the wrong for doing it publicly instead of privately, it’s mostly Sheila who sounds like a jerk. Even if somebody doesn’t share your lifestyle choices, it never hurts to look past the difference(s) and get to know the person. If you’re genuine, you’ll accept them for who they are if they’re genuine too.

DC

This is serious. I wouldn't be mad at her for "insulting our food" or such, but for faking not only a mere dietary choice, but a result of ethical consideration. Being a vegan is, primarily at least, NOT about food, chosing different food just happens to be the most obvious result of it. Just ... don't lie at all, maybe? That's fairly easy. Also, every and any vegan I know even in the slightest bit sees vegetarians as our natural allies in a world that deliberately turns a blind eye on everything nonhuman, as if there was no suffering outside our own race or species or whatever arbitrary line is drawn. I'm not really ashamed to admit that I don't understand obnoxious fake-vegans ... should be more about actually being it than about displaying it anyway ... actually, I think that being a vegan is the most boring thing about me.

Suzy Creamcheese

To be honest, "Sheila" sounds like someone I'd probably go out of my way to avoid.

TonyTee

Not sure how my comment will be perceived this time around, but, my own personal opinion has me thinking Sheila and Michaela were in the wrong here; Sheila for being so rude and not as accepting as others who have different views or lifestyles, instead of looking past it and just getting to know (and trying to like) them for the kind of people they are (including Michaela and boyfriend). Michaela is in the wrong too, for misleading Sheila and going along with a game that she knew was childish and could backfire on her; besides that, she had no problem with Sheila passing obnoxious comments about their eating habits, and let her talk down on her bf, which is way wrong. The bf was only in the wrong for doing it publicly instead of privately, it’s mostly Sheila who sounds like a jerk. Even if somebody doesn’t share your lifestyle choices, it never hurts to look past the difference(s) and get to know the person. If you’re genuine, you’ll accept them for who they are if they’re genuine too.

DC

This is serious. I wouldn't be mad at her for "insulting our food" or such, but for faking not only a mere dietary choice, but a result of ethical consideration. Being a vegan is, primarily at least, NOT about food, chosing different food just happens to be the most obvious result of it. Just ... don't lie at all, maybe? That's fairly easy. Also, every and any vegan I know even in the slightest bit sees vegetarians as our natural allies in a world that deliberately turns a blind eye on everything nonhuman, as if there was no suffering outside our own race or species or whatever arbitrary line is drawn. I'm not really ashamed to admit that I don't understand obnoxious fake-vegans ... should be more about actually being it than about displaying it anyway ... actually, I think that being a vegan is the most boring thing about me.